Becoming a Short Hook Leader!

It’s not hard to get distracted by the the stuff on your to-do list (organizational leadership). So I want to take some time and remind you as a leader, to keep your big rocks as the top priority. Here is one of those lessons; become a short hook leader.

On day 3 of the Battle of Gettysburg, there were two lines drawn just south of Gettysburg. General Meade (Union) set up a short fish hook shaped line while General Lee (Confederate) attempted to surround Meade with a much larger fish-hook shape.

Battle of Gettysburg Day 3 – Fish Hook Battle Lines

Everything was set up for Lee to surround and defeat Meade, leaving him with a straight shot to Washington, DC and an almost sure defeat for the Union in the Civil War. But this short hook created an advantage for Meade that Lee did not have. Daily, Meade was able to communicate with every single one of his commanding officers. This flow of communication set him up for success over the course of this three-day battle, one of the bloodiest and certainly costliest, in American history.

General Lee on the other hand was at a distinct disadvantage when it came to communicating with his commanding officers. Some historians estimate based on the fish-hook lines each General established, that Lee had to cover up to seven miles to get updates from his officers at any given time. Meade only had to travel an estimated three miles. By the time Lee was getting information from an officer about an area of the battle, that information was already old. For this reason, as well as others, this would prove costly to the Confederate army at Gettysburg.

When it comes to leadership, the ability to communicate well and frequently with your key people is crucial. You may have heard this principle called “run with your runners.” But I love the image that is created in my mind for a leader when I think of this short fish hook. Leaders, we must do everything we can to be short hook leaders. Communicating and connecting with your key leaders is crucial for success in whatever you are trying to accomplish.

With that said, here are 4 ways to become a “short hook leader!”

1) Grant Access!

Your key leaders need to know that they have access to you. In ministry your key leaders are likely volunteers. If they have questions, concerns or need guidance, they have to know they can count on you. Can they call you in the middle of the night? Will you always answer your phone if their name shows up on caller ID? They need access to you so that your vision will rub off on them. You must grant them this access by giving them the permission. Many people, simply from a social perspective, may not want to “bother you.” Your job is to let them know they aren’t a bother, that you want to hear from them and that they have access to you at any time.

2) Gather Your Key People!

Make room in your home. Rent out a local community facility. Find space at a local park. Do whatever it takes to get your key leaders together. I gather my entire team no less than once per year, usually twice per year. As a campus pastor, this is crucial! This big group setting allows you to speak into everyone’s lives at once. You have the opportunity to say, “This is where we have been, this is the great stuff happening, but this is where we are going next.” Your leaders will get excited and be ready to take the next hill when you are able to gather them and build excitement. Don’t neglect getting them all together a couple times per year.

3) Meet Individually!

Nothing says “I value you” more than one-on-one time with a key leader. I grab coffee or lunch with every key leader at least once a month. Staff I will meet with weekly. I want to constantly be aware of what’s happening on the front lines. General Meade was able to save crucial time on day 3 of the battle because of his close proximity to his key leaders. If we aren’t close to ours, we get disconnected from the front lines of the battle and can lose a significant battle.

4) Low Hanging Fruit!

This principle deserves a blog post of its own. When you are with your key leaders you will begin to see the good that is already happening in their lives. You can easily identify where God is working and what has them most excited and passionate. Don’t miss that moment. Explore that excitement and passion. Ask them questions like; how do you see God leading you next in this area? Tell me more good stuff about your area of ministry. How can I help you get to where you see God leading?” Spending time with your key leaders will help you identify the low hanging fruit, but you still have to make the most of the opportunity.

Do Work!

What are some of the best practices you have found for communicating well with your core?

What will you do to improve in this leadership area today? This week? This month? This year?

Leader Lead Yourself Spiritually – Part 5

We are closing out a 5-part series on how to lead yourself well. Today I’m encouraging you to lead yourself spiritually.

Leadership is not for the faint of heart. David found himself in a position where his men were threatening to kill him because of what they viewed as a leadership mistake. David was outnumbered 600 to 1. There were only so many options in this situation. 1 Samuel 30:6 tell us…

David encouraged himself in the Lord his God.

In other words David lead himself well spiritually. He didn’t jump into calendar or fix it mode. He didn’t write a sermon or fire off an email. He didn’t pretend the problem wasn’t real by avoiding it and playing Angry Birds. He recognized the reality of the situation and knew in order to lead well through this, he was going to need some spiritual strength. And he found it in God.

So in this video I share 5 ways that you as a pastor (the first 4 easily apply to all leaders) can lead yourself well spiritually.

  1. Get up early.
  2. Find solitude or isolation.
  3. Pray.
  4. Journal.
  5. Hang out with people who don’t know Jesus.

Do Work!

What are your best practices for leading yourself well spiritually?

How do you ‘encourage yourself in God’ most effectively?

Leader, Lead Yourself – Emotionally Part 3

Pastors, I get it. I’ve been there before myself. Ministry doesn’t pan out the way you thought it would. It’s more difficult than you realized. People just aren’t responding. You pray for God to give you the ability to open up the ground underneath the feet of those heathens you serve. Don’t act like you’re above it. I know you’ve been there. So have I.

And it’s not always ministry. Sometimes it’s the personal stuff of life. My dad passed away at the age of forty-one. I was eighteen years old. He spent three weeks in an intensive care unit after the aortic valve in his heart exploded. He never woke up from surgery. He was in ministry. I was training to be in ministry. That kind of stuff isn’t supposed to happen to us “good guys.” I resented God for years. I was bitter. It hurt my relationships. It hurt my ability to effectively minister in the church.

Pastors, it’s time to take a break from being the counselor and go and see one for ourselves. Do some research. Make a phone call. Start talking to someone today.

You need it personally.

Your marriage needs it.

Your kids need it.

Your church needs it.

It’s time to deal with your past. Your dad was a drunk. Your mom yelled. You were abused. All of that stuff is real and it affects you for real. Stop pretending you can just beat it by manning up.

Imagine the freedom when you are able to let go of hurt and anger about your past. Imagine the weight being lifted off your shoulders when you finally realize that God is not dependent on you to grow His church. Imagine the relief when you can finally tell someone about that awful thing that happened to you and you can begin to move past it. Imagine walking out of the shadows and into the light.

Pastors, it’s time to care for your emotions. Jesus said this in Matthew 22:37…

You must love the Lord your God with all your heart.

The heart is the seat of your emotions. You can’t love God with all of your heart if you are stuck in bitterness and anger. It’s impossible to love God with ALL of your emotions if…

…you are frustrated because “your” church hasn’t grown.

 

…you can’t let go of your past.

…you are hiding in shame because of an addiction.

If you are going to love God with all your heart, ALL of your emotions, at the very core of who you are, then you need to lead yourself well. It’s time to deal with your junk.

Pastors, you need a counselor.

Do Work!

I mention two ways to begin dealing with your own past; counseling and getting accountable.

How are you caring for yourself emotionally?

Lead Yourself Mentally

Lead Yourself Personally

Leader, Lead Yourself – Personally! Part 2

Email. Calendars. Organization. Honestly for me, it’s all the boring stuff of leadership. The behind the scenes junk that no one physically sees, but the results are seen. So while it’s not fun (unless you’re one of those weird people), it is vitally important to the life of the leader.

In Part 2 of this series, I talk through a few things that I practice to try and keep myself organized. These are ways I lead myself personally. You will not be totally blown away. Much of this you probably already know. But sometimes the reminder to stay on top of your calendar can be very helpful.

Do Work!

Share some of your best practices for leading yourself well personally. How do you stay organized? What tips/tools/apps do you use?

Check out the links below to the tools I referenced in the video.

Weekly Dominator

Mailbox App

 

Leader, Lead Yourself – Mentally! Part 1

Leaders are learners. If you fail to learn, you will fail to lead.

We can’t possibly lead others to a place we have never been. Therefore, leaders must constantly be learning. Growth can come in many ways. Reading a book on leadership. Connecting with another leader who is further along than you. Listening to podcasts on leadership. The opportunities for mental growth as a leader are endless.

Part of that growth requires humility. You aren’t always going to agree with what you read or hear. Sometimes you will be wrong and the information you receive will actually help you grow. Other times you might be able to weed through some of what you receive. But never fail to be humble as your leadership capacity grows.

Do Work!

What are you doing that is undermining your growth as a leader? How are you not growing yourself mentally?

What can you do to change it?

In what ways are you already growing?